Yes, I am Lucky

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Michael Oluwafemi Taiwo, PhD

Many people deride the role luck has played in their success. They even deny having any! Some are embarrassed by the idea that they are lucky and others are annoyed if an attempt is ever made to show how luck has factored into their achievement. The leadership literature has not made matters any easier. Leadership gurus flood the market with clichés like ‘Luck is when preparation meets opportunity’, or ‘I have found out that the harder I work the luckier I become’, or ‘Luck is the residue of design.’ It is against this tide of conventional wisdom that I wish to swim. And this article is the first I will write in a three-part series to take a shot at this misguided popular opinion. I am going to argue here, and in the two articles coming after this one, that all successful endeavors have luck to thank. No one – whether an individual, a team or a nation – would be successful without luck and if you disagree with this statement then I have you right where I want you: the other side.

Some religious folks have strongly objected to the use of the word “luck”. They believe it is a sacrilegious attempt at giving credit to an unknown. They prefer to use “favor,” “blessed,” “God’s mercies,” or any other term that ascribes their success to an “Other.” This “Other” is usually a know-all, be-all Deity. His omniscient, omnipotent and omnipresent powers order the universe and assign men their fates. I have no problem with that. In fact, with respect to my argument, we are on the same page. Why? Because we both agree that whatever goodies we have were not all purchased by our sweat but by something outside of ourselves that we have absolutely no control over. After all, can you control God? So to my religious friends, I will say you should please humor me and let me carry on with the word “luck” knowing full well that we are both saying the same thing. Don’t let us get caught up with the semantics. Isn’t it Shakespeare that said “What’s in a name? that which we call a rose By any other name will smell as sweet?”

How true?

How true?

I look at my own life and gladly acknowledge the role luck has played. I got into the University a year ahead of my high school friends not because I was smarter or more far-sighted but simply because of Serendipity. My elder sister was about to write JAMB (the entrance exam into Nigeria’s colleges and universities) and when she got to where she would purchase the exam application forms realized she had enough money for two forms and thought “What the heck? I can buy one for my kid brother too. There’s no harm in letting him try early.” I seized that opportunity and worked my butt off to score just enough to be offered an admission into my dream department at my dream school. You could say I got into college when I did because I “worked my butt off” but what if my sister didn’t have enough money for two forms? What if she had but didn’t think of me when buying hers? I never said hard work wasn’t part of the success equation; my point is that luck is very much a part too.

I also think of how I got my current job. I had applied for the same job online with no luck and I got the classic “Sorry, after looking at your resume, we regret to inform you that you have not been considered for the job” response. A few months later, at a Geoscientists’ conference, I ran into a recruiter from the same company that rejected my online application; she took one look at my resume and said “I have a job for you!” Nothing had changed in those intervening months: I was still the same me, doing the same research, having the same GPA and working at the same rate. The only difference now was that I happened to be at the right place at the right time talking to the right person. I was lucky to be at the conference. I am not a Geoscientist but I have friends who thought it okay to invite me. I was lucky to meet a recruiter who knew exactly what the company was looking for and quickly saw a fit. (I have since found out not all recruiters are that competent.) I got a Chemical Engineering job at a Geoscientist conference. Yes, I am lucky.

Look, my point is that in trying to extol the virtues of hardwork, resilience and planning we have swung too far to the other side. We have become extremists in expressing those views and we have almost made luck a vice. Whereas, in the daily grind of life, we over and again find that it ain’t just so! You need to be at least a little lucky to survive in this world and you definitely need a large dose of it to thrive, to have your place among the very best. It is about time you came off your high horse and humbly accept: yes, I was lucky.

P.S.
In my next article, I will write on “The many faces of Luck” and in the last article of this Luck series I will go a bit more philosophical and touch on “Our Struggle with Luck.” I am really excited to share these with you and can’t wait to hear your thoughts!

18 comments

  1. Jarus 10 June, 2013 at 09:30 Reply

    Hmmnn, your piece sets me on a new path of thinking about this issue. I have also always detested people attributing my little attainment to luck. I see it as discounting of one’s efforts, if not bordering on jealousy. I have had strong words for a couple of close people in the past for saying ‘he (I.e me) is only lucky’. I told them they were downplaying my efforts.

    However, I have always agreed and acknowledged I am favoured by God, when I look at circumstances at various epochs of my life.

    Your arguments make great sense, but I am still more comfortable with attributing those inexplicable circumstances that favoured me, to God’s favour than luck. Of course, you pointed out that we are saying the same thing.
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    • drfemitaiwo 23 June, 2013 at 18:54 Reply

      You get it. I like it when people get me :)…I have no problem if you call it God’s favour. The point this Luck Series is making is that there is an essential component of all successful endeavors that we overlook and I feel that is hypocritical at best.

  2. Lawatog 10 June, 2013 at 11:15 Reply

    From my own point of view, without God’s favor there can be no luck. Hence, God’s favor and luck have a direct positive relationship.
    Going by the definition that “luck is when preparation meets opportunity”, I think the definition is still not wrong, for religion encourages hardwork, struggle& efforts. In other words, “work and pray success is sure”. In this sense, “work” will take care of hardwork et’al and “prayer” will exclusively cater for God’s favor and luck. However, this analysis will become null and void from the point of view of those who believes not in the existence of God(Atheist).
    Conclusively, from whatever angle we view it, I will argue personally that no success is achieved without luck. This is because there’re many people out there who can do better but never opportuned.

  3. Funmilayo Oke 10 June, 2013 at 11:23 Reply

    MT!!been a while. I ‘m one of those people who do not discount the impact/importance of luck (God’s favor and mercies) in addition to hard work. I loved your post and can’t wait to read the next article.

    • drfemitaiwo 23 June, 2013 at 18:58 Reply

      Funmilayo! been a while truly! The next article will give examples of things that happen in our daily lives that we – rightly or wrongly – do not deserve. And these I call luck. Wait, till you read the last article of this mini-series (Our Struggle With Luck), you will love it.

  4. Nitrogen 10 June, 2013 at 11:40 Reply

    Hmmmm! Most times, I would always say ‘hardwork plus a little/small luck is equal to astounding success’, so definitely I believe(d) that there is big and small luck. But am beginning to realise that luck is luck, whether big or small.

    Can’t wait to read the next.

    • drfemitaiwo 23 June, 2013 at 19:01 Reply

      Nitrogen, I agree with you, it is hard to call luck little or big. You can say good or bad luck but I am not really sure we can quantify something we cannot measure. Luck can be like salt, when missing, even in small quantities, the soup tastes dull and bland no matter the effort that went into its preparation.

  5. Issa Bolaji Issa 13 June, 2013 at 10:31 Reply

    I concurred with this your article, as i’ve personally had several experiences that portrayed this. Qudos to u, more grease to your elbow.

  6. David M 15 June, 2013 at 03:03 Reply

    My personal favorite Michael which I think is consistent with your thesis…

    Luck is what happens when hard work and opportunity meet

    • drfemitaiwo 23 June, 2013 at 19:10 Reply

      To further the thesis, I would say “Success is what happens when hard work and opportunity meet”…the opportunity itself is the luck. Its good to see you here David M!

  7. Aloma S. Yusuf 16 June, 2013 at 09:11 Reply

    My point is that luck or favor is it all. No matter what you know how to do very well many are still out there that can do it more than you do but not in their expected position, just that Luck privilege, opportunity or favor is yet to locate them. Like the story of your JAMB form the brilliancy in you might have be there unknown if your sister did not spare you the money for the form, One might not believe you could pass JAMB then, to less talk of been admitted into such great university. She called it a try for you and it was your time. She is one of your agent of favor. I have a lot to say about luck because am also luck.

  8. tunji 27 July, 2014 at 15:08 Reply

    Another angle to the luck argument is that none of us chose our parents. Being born to a certain family confer on you certain privileges which you have no idea about. Your parents genes can also not be discounted. Have you wondered while you put in some hours of work to achieve a task and some folks no matter what they do they will still not be able to accomplish that same task.

    So I believe luck or a divine being do play a lot in attainment of success in life.

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